Many years ago, two alcoholic
men – Bill Wilson and Dr. Bob Smith – met and changed the world.
Until that
point, alcoholism was considered largely an untreatable disease with only three
known outcomes…jails, institutions or death. But after these two men met and
talked with each other about their common illness, the processes by which
people came to understand alcoholism and address it changed radically. No
longer would alcoholics be seen as merely weak-willed men and women. No longer
would alcoholics be relegated to the insane asylums or jails simply because
they could not be treated. And, no longer would people with the disease of
alcoholism or other addictions be without hope to arrest the disease. When Bill
W. and Dr. Bob sat and talked about their experiences, strengths, and hopes for
the future, they gave hope to now millions of people.
What made the difference in the lives of these
men, and the millions who followed them, was that they had restored principles
and values to their lives through the practice of a simple daily program of
recovery. They reasoned that when they drank they ended up giving away not only
money to get the alcohol that would ruin their lives, but they also gave up
their morals, values, and principles that governed their lives. The bartender
or liquor store owner ended up owning them and their lives as these men
indentured themselves to the alcohol: They became slaves to the alcohol and
would do whatever the people who had alcohol told them to do. But, in recovery,
this servitude ended. They were able to not drink when they were abstinent and
they maintained their abstinence by practicing a few simple principles in their
daily lives.
As
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) came to say later, people in recovery from addiction
need to “practice these principles in all their affairs.” What were these
principles that the men had given up when drinking and were restored to them
when they were sober? The first 100 men and women who stopped drinking through
AA in those early years set down in writing the steps that they took to get and
stay sober. They became known as the famous “12 Steps” of recovery. They
reasoned that if they became enslaved to alcohol by gradually giving away all
their values, morals, and principles, then they would need to recover those
same values, morals, and principles in their lives in order to remain sober. So
they listed out the principles they knew they needed to live by. They arrayed
them in terms of the step-by-step process they went through to get them back
into their lives, and wrote the language for the steps it took in a clear and
direct way.
Here are the
principles that they built back into their lives, one-by-one over time, and the
steps they took to get them:
Honesty - 1.
We admitted we were powerless over alcohol and that our lives were
unmanageable.
Hope – 2.
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Faith – 3.
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
Courage – 4.
Made a searching and fearless more inventory of ourselves.
Integrity – 5.
Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of
our wrongs.
Willingness – 6.
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
Humility – 7.
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
Love – 8.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed ands became willing to make amends to
them all.
Justice – 9.
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would
injure them or others.
Discipline –
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly
admitted it.
Spirituality –
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with
God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the
power to carry that out.
Service –
12. Having has a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to
carry the message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our
affairs.
Armed with 12 spiritual principles they
had once lost but regained through the 12 Steps, the original founders of the
AA program resumed their lives as recovering alcoholics. They passed down a
rich tradition to other alcoholics, drug addicts, and others addicted to
behaviors that works as an effective way to arrest the effects of addiction and
relapse to this day.
